Imagine living in a home you’ve known for years but that suddenly feels unfamiliar and confusing. This is the reality for many people with cognitive impairment. If you care for someone with dementia, you may be wondering how to help them continue living at home as they decline. Start by creating an environment that supports both their safety and comfort.
There are basic strategies to use throughout the house. Remember that not only memory changes but also spatial awareness and depth perception. So, simplify: Remove clutter. Use soothing colors, no busy patterns, and contrasting colors to emphasize a change in surface (door vs. wall, step vs. floor). Good lighting is important, but eliminates glare. Also, fix any odd hinge squeaks or sounds that might be confusing.
Then look at things room by room. Here are some suggestions:
- Living room. Remove throw rugs, which are a fall hazard, and any seldom-used furniture. Put their favorite chair in clear view of the kitchen or bathroom. Keep familiar items such as photos, a clock, or a calendar that make it feel like home.
- Open shelving or see-through cabinets make it easier to find items. Label closed storage with pictures or words. Stove coils can be replaced with temperature-limiting burners. Many smart appliances have automatic shut-off or large digital displays for reminder messages.
- Install grab bars near the toilet and in the shower. A raised toilet seat can ease sitting/standing. Add contrasting colors to bathroom fixtures such as the toilet seat and faucet handles. Clearly label hot and cold faucets. Motion lights can reduce falls.
- Add labels to drawers and closets to aid memory and organization. Ensure the bed is at a comfortable height. Add a soft night-light as a guide to the bathroom. Remove any throw rugs.
- Clear pathways in the garden or yard, ensuring they are well lit and easy to navigate. Install secure gates if wandering is a concern. If you want to discourage them from leaving the house alone, camouflage door handles leading to the exterior.
Involve your loved one in the decision making whenever possible. It’s their home, after all. You can make many of these changes yourself, but professional help is available. Occupational therapists or aging-in-place specialists can assess specific needs and make recommendations. Some updates may require a contractor or handyman.
Is home comfortable for a loved one with dementia?
Creating a dementia-friendly environment can make a big difference. As the Delaware, and Delaware and Chester Counties in PA experts in family caregiving, we at Delaware Palliative understand your loved one’s needs and can provide resources for creating a home that supports independence and well-being. Contact us at 302-478-5707 to learn more.
